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Attraction isn't only visual: what can someone's voice tell us?

In an experiment, 71 participants rated the attractiveness of the faces, movements, voices, and scents of 61 unfamiliar people. Different cues shaped impressions in different ways; the combination of audio and video received especially high ratings. Participants rated separate stimuli rather than getting to know people through live interaction. This does not show that a voice can reliably predict what a partner will be like or that there is a tone of voice everyone finds sexually attractive.


Sometimes a voice catches our attention before we have time to take in someone's face: its timbre, intonation, laugh, pauses. It can spark interest or curiosity, or make a conversation feel warmer, while our impressions of a person still come from many different cues. Context, personal experience, and individual preferences all matter. Try noticing what you like in a voice: softness, confidence, liveliness, a sense of humor? Sometimes it is not a particular frequency that attracts us, but how someone sounds with us: whether they listen closely, avoid rushing us, and seem comfortable being themselves. A voice can be the beginning of interest, but it cannot answer whether you will be right for each other; getting to know one another often changes a first impression.

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