But being in a relationship does not switch off your eyes, attention or capacity for attraction.
You can be happy with your partner and still notice someone beautiful. Feel chemistry. Develop a small crush. Enjoy someone else’s attention.
And that is often where anxiety appears: if someone else caught my interest, does that mean something is wrong with my relationship?
Not necessarily.
The more interesting question is not whether attraction ever appears, but what a person chooses to do with it and what agreements exist within their relationship.
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